time to capture the best education
ten internal and external environment in education was not well under the premise that many parents complain that children today often difficult to teach. Indeed, the education of children is not a simple matter. However, if parents everywhere to observe carefully and accurately capture the best opportunity of education, timely guidance and education of their children, but also entirely possible to have a multiplier effect.
one, just some bad behavior when the outcrop.
a large number of facts have proven that children tend to develop bad habits and bad behavior occurs when the first failure to be corrected are inseparable. Many children do the wrong thing, often not aware of the subjective. If parents of a child's bad behavior in just when the outcrop, focusing on the basis.
Second, the new era begin.
Any deemed If parents strenuously in their determined, determined to grasp the opportunities when starting from scratch, its education and encouragement, will be able to effectively promote their better. New this time is just the beginning of all time. Such as: obtain a new school, new semester, after the midterm exam, just for the class, the newly elected class of dry and so on. This time, the child will have a freshness, hope, easy to produce a strong If parents make the best use at this time, will be able to
three, children are wronged, or setbacks.
when the child has done nothing wrong and have been misunderstood, or good intentions to do bad things and be blamed, they tend to believe that others are deliberately contradict themselves, so the grievances arising from the strong reverse psychology. At this point the parents had been able to calm, tolerance and understanding, sympathetic help children analyze the causes and effects, to help him save the situation, to be objective and fair treatment, the child would have a gratitude. In this case, lessons learned and even admonished the parents if the child can hear in, but also willing to accept.
Fourth, when the school teachers to home visits.
teacher visits the children most disturbing, they fear their parents will say nothing in front of teachers. Some parents home visits is that there will be teachers to complain, recrimination, would like to take lessons from teachers to the dignity of the child, the child gave rise to resentment, and then after the good and bad parents would not and will not listen. If teachers, parents came to visit, the first children's good performance at home to report to the teacher, then easily won the children's favor. On this basis, then the desired tone gently pointed out its shortcomings and deficiencies, the children generally receptive and positive action in the future to correct.
five, in case of difficulties or fail.
sports meeting on children for some reason did not get ranking in the most depressing time of the hearing if the parents are not encouraging, but blind and conceited, On the contrary, failing that test when the child, parents are not reprimanded, but first make sure it has to work, and then led him to analyze the failure, and remedies to help him in a timely manner, so that he out of the woods, the children will appreciate the result of conscious redouble our efforts.
six times greater fault.
children made a big mistake, or through a disaster, when most of them will have a sense of fear, guilt and guilt. At this point, they heard more than usual into the different views, but also easy to humbly accept the criticism. If the parents do a good job this time, in full understanding, sympathy and understanding, based on the help of their lessons learned through the induction through, you will receive unexpected results. Conversely, if parents seize the child
seven others or their own achievements and do a good time.
mental and physical health of each child has belligerent, and not far behind the common. So when fellow in daily life has made outstanding achievements, they may pretend to be nonchalant on the surface, in fact, but my mind was determined to be in the dark to catch up and over each other. And when they really made good grades or do when being praised, but will take this as motivation, excellence, better and better. Therefore, parents should be good at seizing the opportunity to guide them to the children to make appropriate objectives and requirements, and promote the enthusiasm of the moment of its transformation into sustained action.
eight, of a time when interest in things.
when the child of a thing such as painting, playing piano, playing a keen interest in other, often have a positive desire to pursue, they will consciously seek knowledge, to hard work. Parents should respect their children choose their own interests, should not impose their will on children, to compel him to do not want to do, learning not want to learn. Most parents support the wise child's interests and help them get started, its process of development is correct, scientific guidance, to teach their balanced development, strengthening the knowledge base, profound knowledge and avoid detours.
September, when a significant group activities.
most kids do not want chaos in the collective activities of the overall situation as bad a big deal out in front of peers quite embarrassed; the contrary, almost all children want their words to the subject of praise like this, the subject of praise. Parents can be such a clever use of child psychology, to seize the large-scale activities to engage (such as athletic meets, Art Week, visit, spring, etc.) a good opportunity for timely compliance of the child, loving the collective, solidarity and other educational .
ten, go home to a guest or guests of the time.
children like to listen to good words, be praised, not disgraced in front of guests want. So when parents brought their family out to a guest or guests, the children's words and deeds will not consciously Parents who can seize this opportunity to praise the child in front of guests the advantages of moderation, he will continue to carry forward the proud.
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